For women navigating the space between who they were and who they're becoming.
You're navigating a significant shift in your life — the space between who you were and who you're becoming.
There's a stirring inside you — something you're called to but can't yet name. A quiet urgency that tells you more is waiting. You can feel it. You just can't reach it yet.
That's what life in the in-between feels like. The old season has closed. The new one hasn't started. And you're doing everything you can to find your footing in the space between.
That's not a motivation problem. It's not a planning problem. What you need is clarity — on where you are, who you're becoming, and a clear path to actually getting there.
This is coaching for women navigating life transitions — and it's how you find your way to what's next.
She helped me realize I am not stuck. Now I'm extremely excited about my future.
— E. Clarke
Sharlene's ability to listen helped me find my identity and gave me clarity midst confusion and doubt.
— S. Yoon
And that's the part nobody talks about.
It's not just the frustration of trying everything and going nowhere. It's not just the exhaustion of another day feeling like this. It's the quiet sense that there is something you were designed for — a purpose, a calling, a version of yourself that's been waiting — and the longer you stay here, the further away it feels.
You can feel it. You always could. But you can't pull it out of you. You can't put words to it. And without words, you can't act on it.
So the days keep passing. The dissatisfaction deepens. And the life you were meant to be living stays just out of reach — not because it isn't there, but because something beneath the surface is keeping you from it.
That something has a name. And until you understand what it is, nothing you try will change this.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You're not failing. You're not lacking effort or willingness. You're in the in-between — and you're trying to move forward without the one thing that would actually make that possible.
WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE
"You're no longer who you were — but not yet who you're becoming. That's exactly where this work begins."
For a long time I thought I just needed a plan. A clearer direction. A better strategy. But the harder I tried to move forward, the more stuck I felt.
It wasn't until I began doing the identity work — understanding who I actually was beneath the roles, the expectations, and the season I was leaving behind — that everything started to shift.
That's the work I guide you through.
Not a plan. Not a strategy. Clarity — on who you are in this season, what's been keeping you in the in-between, and what moving forward actually looks like for you.
Because once you have that — everything else follows.

Three steps to begin your journey out of the in-between.
STEP 01
Start with our free 2-minute diagnostic quiz.
STEP 02
A complimentary 30-minute conversation.
STEP 03
The right support for exactly where you are.
I know that you're in the "in-between" — that place where the old season has closed and the new one hasn't begun. You can feel a stirring inside you, something you're called to, but you can't yet name it or reach it. And with it comes a quiet urgency — because you've tried everything you know to try and you're still stuck.
The problem isn't you. It isn't your effort or your willingness. It's that something beneath the surface hasn't been made clear yet — and without that clarity, nothing you try will move you forward.
I believe every woman in the in-between deserves to understand exactly what's keeping her there. I understand how exhausting it is to keep trying without knowing why nothing is shifting — which is why I guide women through the identity work that finally makes sense of it all.
You can stop trying to figure this out alone — and start finally moving forward.
From women who found their way through the in-between
"During my time of difficulty, I had many challenges processing what I was going through—my thoughts were stuck in a loop. It was especially hard with a 3-year-old. I felt alone, fearful, and helpless. Thanks to Shar's wealth of knowledge, advice, and support, she gave me guidance, hope, and the practical steps I needed to move forward. She helped me realize this wasn't 'the end' for me—that I am not stuck. Now I'm extremely excited about my future."
— E Clarke
"I went through a traumatic divorce 6 years ago. It was a devastating time as I literally lost what most people will say is 'everything'. Sharlene's ability to listen and help me identify what was going on gave me clarity midst confusion and doubt. One of the strongest and most effective work was helping me find my identity. When I left my 20 year marriage, I was broken and hollow and didn't recognize who I was. This identity piece was quite important because I had to get to know myself as if from a new birth. I'm growing and evolving daily, and with the grace of God I have more hope and peace today than ever before."
— S. Yoon
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